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Your Fat Friend

Directed by Jeanie Finlay

YOUR FAT FRIEND, a film about fatness, family, the complexities of change and the deep, messy feeling we hold about our bodies.

  • ABOUT
  • BIO
  • SCREENINGS
  • AWARDS
  • CREDITS
  • GALLERY

Genre

Synopsis

Made over 6 years, director Jeanie Finlay charts the rise of writer and activist Aubrey Gordon from anonymous blogger “Your Fat Friend” to NYTimes best selling author and beloved podcaster.  Her searingly honest writing describes what it’s like to be that fat person on the plane.. … and how the fantasies, peddled by a diet and wellness industry worth $26 billion a year are on a par with the lies that Big Tobacco told the public in the 1950s. (95% of diets fail for lasting weight loss). And how the biggest threat to fat people’s health might just be the bias that some many health care providers hold for fat people.  …and about her own fractured relationship to her body. She spent a decade campaigning for LGBTQIA rights so she knows that change is possible. Now it's time to advocate for herself.  This isn’t about “body positivity” co-opted by brands to sell fat-kinis to size 16 women. Her aim? A paradigm shift in the way we see fat people and the fat on our own bodies. It has brought her an insatiable worldwide audience and threats to her life.  The most meaningful personal change is when her family start listening to her message.  YOUR FAT FRIEND, a film about fatness, family, the complexities of change and the deep, messy feeling we hold about our bodies.

Bio

Jeanie Finlay is one of Britain’s most distinctive documentary makers, creating award-winning work for cinema and television, telling intimate stories to international audiences. She has made films for HBO, IFC and four commissions for acclaimed BBC Storyville, including BIFA nominated The Great Hip Hop Hoax and BIFA winning Orion:The Man Who Would Be King. Whether inviting audiences to share the (extra)ordinary journey of a British transgender man, pregnant with his child (BIFA nominated Seahorse), behind the scenes of Teesside’s last record shop in her home-town (SOUND IT OUT), or onto the set of the world’s biggest television show (Emmy nominated Game Of Thrones: The Last Watch), all of Jeanie's films share an empathetic approach to bringing overlooked and untold stories to the screen. In 2023 a recipient of a prestigious Chicken & Egg award, recognising directors at advanced stages of their careers, poised to reach new heights. Her films were showcased in a retrospective at Museum of Moving Image, NYC, People Everyday: The Films of Jeanie Finlay, by True Story, UK, are held in the archive at the British Film Institute and are featured on the BFI Player, part of The Camera is Ours: Britain's Women Documentary Makers. Her. films are showcased on Criterion in a collection called People Person: Documentaries by Jeanie Finlay. Jeanie was awarded an honorary Doctorate by her alma mater Nottingham Trent University in recognition of her contribution to filmmaking.

Screening History

World Premiere - Tribeca Film Festival 2023

Sheffield Doc Fest 2023

DC/DOX Film Festival 2023

DMZ International Documentary Film Festival 2023

Edinburgh Film Festival 2023

Awards History

Sheffield DocFest 2023 - Audience Award Winner

Credits

Actor - Aubrey Gordon

Director - Jeanie Finlay

Composer - Tara Creme